The great paradox of a stress cycle is that the harder you try to escape the tighter is its grip. Yet simply trying to relax and look dispassionately at one’s emotional distress is no more effective. Stuart Shanker’s blog post for Psychology Today describes how we can break free from a stress cycle and move forward.

How Did I Miss This? Getting Sucked Into The Misbehaviour Trap.
I have been thinking and learning a lot about Self-Reg for many years now. This does not make me an




